Calculated Acts Of One Parent To Alienate Child From Other Parent Amount To "Mental Cruelty" : Kerala High Court

The Kerala High Court has ruled that any act by a parent that resulted in a denial of a child's love and affection to the other parent by alienating the child amounts to mental cruelty. Deciding a matrimonial appeal filed by a husband accusing his wife of cruelty, the Justices A Muhamed Mustaque and Dr Kauser Edappagath said, "Nothing can be more painful than experiencing one's children—one's own flesh and blood—rejecting him/her. The above acts of the respondent willfully alienating the child from the appellant, no doubt, constitute mental cruelty..." What transpired in CourtThe Court made this pronouncement while allowing an appeal filed by a husband against his wife. The appellant had filed for divorce on the ground of cruelty. His earlier petition was dismissed by the Family Court in Thrissur. Their marriage, solemnised in 2009 as per the Hindu Marriage Act, witnessed regular instances of outrage and resentment, causing the appellant serious mental agony and pain, the appellant argued. After two years of marriage, a daughter was born to the couple. Before Court, the appellant-husband submitted that he was told about the delivery of his own child through family friends. Even though he rushed to the hospital, he was not permitted to see the child and was obstructed from entering the hospital by the relatives of the wife, he told the Court. He went on to argue that he and his parents were completely isolated from the child and the wife even refused to send him a photo of his child. Only after the District Legal Services Authority intervened was he able to meet child, it was asserted. "The respondent intentionally alienated the child from the appellant depriving his parental right to be loved by the child. It amounts to nothing but mental cruelty", Gopal's counsel iterated. Finding force in the argument raised by the appellant, the court emphasized that physical violence is not absolutely essential to constitute cruelty. Significantly, the Bench ruled that parents had a right to receive the love and affection of a child. The Court explained, "A child has the right to the love and affection of both parents. Similarly, the parents have the right to receive the love and affection of the child. Any act on the part of the one parent calculated to deny the love and affection of the child to the other parent by alienating the child from him/her amounts to mental cruelty." From the facts, the Court pointed out that the appellant had suffered cruelty at the hands of the wife, both physical and mental and found nothing to discredit the appellant's testimony that his wife constantly showered abuse and filthy language and even went as far as to physically assault his parents. Adding to this was the fact of parental alienation, the Court pointed out. Parental alienation, the Court said, "is a process through which a child becomes estranged from a parent as the result of the psychological manipulation of another parent. It occurs when one parent undermines or prejudices the contact and relationship between the child and the other parent without well-founded reasons. It is a strategy whereby one parent intentionally displays to the child unjustified negativity aimed at the other parent. The purpose of this strategy is to damage the child's relationship with the other parent and to turn the child's emotions against the other parent." Applying the preponderance of probabilities principle, the Court concluded that the appellant had suffered mental cruelty at the instance of his wife. Therefore, his application for dissolution of marriage on grounds of cruelty was accepted by the Court. How the Court described 'mental cruelty' The Court laid down the following principles to explain mental cruelty – the conduct complained of need not necessarily be so grave and severe so as to make cohabitation virtually unendurable or of such character as to cause danger to life, limb or health.Must be something more serious than "ordinary wear and tear of the married life".the conduct and behaviour of one spouse should be such that it causes reasonable apprehension in the mind of the latter that it is not safe for him or her to continue the marital tie.The feeling of deep anguish, disappointment, frustration and embarrassment in one spouse caused by the sustained course of abusive and humiliating conduct of other may sometimes lead to mental cruelty.Mental cruelty may also consist of verbal abuses and insults by using filthy and abusive language leading to constant disturbance of mental peace of the other party. Malevolent intention is not essential to cruelty, if by ordinary sense in human affairs, the act complained of could otherwise be regarded as cruelty. On whether the cruelty was condoned in any way in terms of Section 23 of the Hindu Marriage ActThe Court pointed out that the Family Court had rejected the appellant's...

Calculated Acts Of One Parent To Alienate Child From Other Parent Amount To "Mental Cruelty" : Kerala High Court

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